We were looking for a DP toy and the the ultimate cockring looked like it would be a good fit for our needs. It might be better if it were a bit smaller, if you are new to anal play go slow and use plenty of lube. Other than that it is a great product. My wife and I were excited to give it a try as she and I both have a DP fantasy, well the ultimate cock ring really does the job. It was a great experience for both of us and makes for a great date night.